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God is so patient. Far, far more patient than I can ever fathom. I mean, I know some of the ridiculous things that I do, say, and think...and God is still patient with me. But I'm sure there are countless things I do that I am not even conscious of that require his moment by moment patient care and understanding.
Not only is He patient, He's good. That...that is where I wrestle. I can tolerate a lot of things. I can appear patient. Yes, I can keep my mouth shut, refrain from saying the things that are swirling around in my head, and people might just think I've mastered patience. But I'm not good. Outwardly I can wait, but inwardly...inwardly a million thoughts are being entertained. I can plot, plan, and imagine what it would be like to actually do those things...but God...God's not like that (and yes, that just might be the biggest understatement ever typed). He's patient...and He's good. He does both. He sees my faults, my lack of faith, and my weak heart. He waits for me. He waits for me to surrender yet again my plans. He waits for me to draw near to him. He waits for me to come and be satisfied by Him alone. But while He waits...he's not plotting against me. He isn't dreaming of how he can stick it to me. He doesn't imagine my destruction or ruin. No...he waits...and while he waits... He loves.
That...that frustrates my understanding. It reveals even more of my wicked heart...because sometimes...I just want him to let me have it. I deserve to be punished. I deserve to be forsaken, forgotten, abandoned, destitute, and lost. I deserve to be left wanting, forever searching for satisfaction yet never finding it...because so often, I walk away from him in an attempt to fill myself with something else that looks better to my eyes. Yet all the while, he waits. He waits for the moment when once again I come to the end of myself and realize...everything I want and need is found at the cross. He waits for the breaking points when I yet again realize my plans are not his plans, and he's not ready to show me his plans yet. He waits for me to hand him my heart, my plans, my dreams, and my life. And even while he waits, he lavishes his love on me.
And as I sit here typing out the thoughts in my head, I realize...I really am Gomer. And He...he is my Hosea.
I had every intention about writing all the ways God has blessed me this weekend. The amazing things He has done to answer a few burning desires that have been waging war in my heart. But as I began writing, I realized how much I really didn't deserve those answers. I wasn't asking for them in faith. I was pleading for them in fear. And yet...God still answered.
I don't understand his ways. His love and compassion do not fail me...and I don't know why. Because I know beyond a shadow of a doubt, I deserve to have reached the end of his mercy.
God is so good...
God is so good...
God is so good...
He's so good to me.

Breakdown....

It's spring break here in Portugal.
Breaks are just not good for me. I always think I want them, but as soon as they come, they carry with them more emotions than I'm prepared to deal with.

Christmas break was understandable to me. It was the holidays... you're supposed to miss your family, right? And miss them I did. But then school started again, life resumed its busy schedule, and my emotions returned to their usual state.

But before I realized it...spring break arrived, and we had finished school. And before the school day ended...I had already cried five times. Not kidding.
I think it's during break time, when I have the opportunity to choose how I want to spend my time, that I realize...it's impossible to do what I really want to do during my break time. Every spring break since graduating from college, I've spent that week with my closest friends...doing absolutely nothing together...and loving every minute of it. We'd hop in a car, drive to a cabin, and hibernate. We'd spend hours in the car together, laughing till we cried, singing as loud as we possibly could, playing car jeopardy, and wandering aimlessly through small towns. We never had to ask each other what we wanted to do...we all just genuinely enjoyed the same things. It was fun. It was easy. It was relaxing. And it was a blast.

I miss my friends so much this week. I miss friendships with history...
I wish I could just transport myself home...or them here. Just for a day or two. Or three...or four...
Or maybe just the whole break. :)
Nevertheless...life goes on. But it's just not quite as rich, you know?

Foreigners...

I realized something weird today.
As I sat at an incredibly popular place (Belem), I watched multitudes of foreigners walk by. They're easy to spot. Fanny packs. Sunbrellas (apparently popular with Asian crowds...). Nikons. Short shorts on old tan legs. Bright red clogs made to look like Birkenstocks. Other foreign languages I can't understand...German, Chinese, Dutch, Spanish... you name it.
But I realized...sometimes you just do dumb things when you're traveling. Like wear a fanny pack. Or look at the picture in the tourist book instead of looking at the amazing scene directly in front of you. Or take pictures of anything and everything...frantically running to capture the next moment, instead of soaking up the current one.
I also realized that for the first time, I didn't feel like a foreigner. Everyone around me was trying to absorb their brief time in this amazing country...but I'm living in it. And for the first time, the amazing scenery felt normal. Not exceptional, spectacular, or incredible. But everyday, and common.
That's odd for a girl that's used to flat land and cornfields. :)
Ok, I didn't grow up in the country...but you know what I mean.

A hodge podge...

It's nearly nine-thirty at night here. As I begin getting ready for bed, I am reminded, this is not Iowa.
I can hear the clanging of forks and knives against porcelain, children laughing and screaming, the oddly familiar sound of a child being forced to practice the piano, and the loud reminder that a soccer game is on. Trumpets blare (yes, you read correctly....trumpets...as in more than one blaring) and the neighborhood comes alive as a team scores.
I love seeing differences. Things that seem so odd to me are just a normal part of life here.
Today I had language class for the first time in two weeks. I just love language. My teacher constantly asks me if I am a "faladora" (talker). I don't really think I am...maybe I just have a poor understanding of myself...I don't know. I just know...it does kill me that I can't just carry on a conversation in Portuguese yet. I did, by the way, explain my theory regarding language and verbs (every verb only having one conjugation). She liked it. :)
One thing I found interesting today: Amar. Love. We (Americans) use love for everything. I love cheese. I love purses. I love shoes. I love the dog. I love music. It's really intriguing to me that the Portuguese only use "amar" for people, not things. Other verbs are used for cats, dogs, french fries...you name it. I feel like I do throw that word around so much...and somehow, really have lost the meaning of the word. Maybe "love" really should be reserved for the handful of people I'd die for. Just a thought from language that's been swirling around in my head. That... and the words "duvidas" and "herdeiro" and "sem eira nem beira"....
I don't know why "doubts", "heirs" and a phrase I don't really understand the meaning of are continually in my head...
But...at least there's some Portuguese stuck in there... :)

My Favorite Weekend. Ever.

I loved this weekend. It was as if God handcrafted everything I loved and needed into this weekend.
Here are the highlights:

* Walking around with four Mk's... talking, laughing, and connecting.

* Attending our church's Easter program practice... "Jesus" with a crown of tinsel and a broom for a cross...being beaten by two "guards" that were young girls who apparently never had brothers... or hit their brothers if they had them...
It was fun... and culturally educational. :)

* Singing with an good guitarist. Wow... it was just fun to learn a new Portuguese song and listen to him just make up the background as I sang. Very, very fun.

* Getting asked to hang out after practice with a Portuguese couple from the church. (I almost couldn't answer I was so stunned they asked me!) They drove me to a beach where we sat by the ocean wrapped up in blankets sipping coffee. They told me their testimonies (which was so cool, by the way) then we spent the rest of the night doing this:
"So...I don't understand _____________________ about Americans? Why do you guys __________________________?"

"Really, because I can't understand ___________________ about the Portuguese?"

It was SOOO fun. And I came home nearly in tears because it was the first time any Portuguese person has initiated hanging out. It was huge for me. I came home and called my friend in the States and said, "THEY invited ME!!! And I even got to ride in their car!!! And... and we talked...I had SO MUCH FUN!!!! I hope they had fun. If I had fun, they had fun, right? I hope they liked it as much as I liked it. Do you think they liked it?" I felt like a kindergartner on the first day of school getting asked to sit by someone at lunch.
Wow... what has happened to me?

* Fellow-shipping. A church fellowship. And guess what...my "friend" asked to sit by me at lunch. :) I actually felt like I fit.

* Holding David...the cutest, chunkiest little Portuguese baby I've seen.

* Going to Starbucks to get a Frappuccino.

* Not having to pay for the Frappuccino. I love our friend at Starbucks. He needs to get saved. They all need to get saved. Can I start a church at Starbucks? :)

* Eating Swedish meatballs and mashed potatoes. It's like Christmas for me. Except my grandma wasn't there to rave about how great of a job she did making the Swedish meatballs... :)

Great weekend. My favorite so far. :)

NOTE: I never realized how complicated America's government really is. Try explaining the roles of the House, Senate, President, electoral terms, and balance of power...whew... complicated stuff.